Now or Later (not the candy)

Post date: 2018-12-07 13:21:55

Hi Folks, After more than a couple of years of struggling with the idea of leaving my marriage (25 years in Feb), I had a major moment of clarity this week and am ready to tell him I want to leave.

Here we are at Christmas, his favorite time of year. He has WONDERFUL family memories, especially of his grandmother at the holiday, and gets giddy and loving this time of year. It makes it hard for me. I'm ready to tell him but I think I need to wait until January so the holiday isn't wrecked for him. I'm finding myself a little sullen and sometimes angry trying to hold it in. It's really going to crush him in many ways. I've been the primary breadwinner for the last 15 years and he'll have to move back home. It will be very hard, financially, even with the financial support I'll do my best to continue providing. And I know he still loves me. I do love him, but it's love like you have for a dear a brother.

Your thoughts on timing, MeFites?

Thank you, as always.

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