How can I stop feeling so sad/upset about men never hitting on me?

Post date: 2018-07-19 15:27:00

I am 23 and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I ever dated. I am 5'4 and 120 lbs and whenever I go out, I try to wear makeup. I don't really go to bars or clubs but I constantly go out a lot to places such as grocery stores/shopping, restaurants, coffee shops, etc..... I never get hit on by any guy anywhere I go. I have been hit on before in the past but the last time I was hit on was 2 years ago and the guy told me that he thinks I am very beautiful. When I told him I never had a bf before, he said I would find someone. I never thought I was ugly but now I am starting to feel like I am ugly because I never get male attention.

It makes me feel so sad because sometimes my friends will talk about men hitting on them while shopping or out and about or I will go on social media and see people's snap story/instagram about how some guy was hitting on them or ask for their number or how a girl met a guy just by going to a coffee shop or doing a regular task but that never happens to me at all. I just feel so undesirable and that I won't ever find a guy interested in me at all. I am so tired of crying and constantly asking myself what is wrong with me? Why am I having such a hard time? It's hard for me to believe that love will come to me at a later time when I am struggling now. Sometimes I feel like giving up and I think that maybe I wasn't ever meant to experience love or I get scared that I will still be 30 and alone/lonely. I don't know what to do about this?

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