I'm an avid cyclist. Cycling buddy keeps urging me to ride his tandem with him.
I am not at all interested in riding a tandem, and I keep saying no thank you. He is relentless ... says things like, "How will you know whether you like it unless you try it?" I am happy to do rides with him with him on his own bicycle and me on my own, which we do quite often. I have no desire whatsoever to ride a tandem. I want to do more than just blah-blah pedal. I'm also an equestrian and I hate riding double on the back of a horse ... no fun at all having my view blocked, and boring just sitting there and not being able to guide the horse. Advice?