Is he a man child?

Post date: 2020-07-03 00:53:47

Pondering whether I should continue seeing my quarantine Bumble date

I'm 32 and female. We met on Bumble at the beginning of April and spoke on the phone several times throughout April and May. In June, our city opened up and so we met up. We had 6 dates including one long 5 hour hiking date. I had a great time on each date. Personality and chemistry-wise, it's a great match. I can tell he likes me. However, there are a few annoying things that I'm not sure if I can get past:

- He initiated the first date, but after that I had to initiate all the dates. I initially had to refuse his couple first date asks because we actually weren't allowed to travel between different areas of town at that point and I was strictly following my city's social distancing guidelines. Maybe his confidence took a knock and he prefers to let me take the lead? Kind of annoying though.

- He went on vacation this week without really letting me know in advance. I wanted to have a talk with him before he left to discuss whether we are on the same page. He had texted me and said 'I will call you in one hour.' And never called! He waited until the next day and texted me once he had already left. Now I'm asking myself if this is worth my time. A few other facts: He lives with his parents. Not sure if it's a cultural thing (Indian) or just an immaturity thing (he has a good job).

Should I continue seeing him or is he too much of a man child? I'm not interested in teaching a grown man how to behave especially since he's 2 years older than me. On the other hand I'm not sure how to end it seeing as I've been pretty obvious about the fact that I like him. But the unwillingness to call me back kind of stuck out as a really annoying and immature way to behave. Is it worth a second chance?

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