How do you get into the "don't even care if I have sex," state?

Post date: 2019-11-12 15:09:35
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Sometimes when I'm with new potential partner, I'll *really* want sex. Other times, I can get into a sort of compassionate, caring state where there's much less internal pressure to have sex. It's very distinct. And it makes relating go much better. I don't know how to reliably do this, though.

Are other people aware of these (at least to me) very distinct states or at least poles on a continuum? If so, does anyone have obvious or non-obvious ways for reliably moving towards the caring, compassionate side during real time interaction?
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