I'm 34 weeks pregnant with my first. While I wanted this, I haven't been feeling happy or attached to the baby at any point during the pregnancy. All I feel is apathy and occasional bouts of anxiety at how unprepared we are (we haven't started buying anything and we don't know the first thing about newborn care), and how my entire life is going to change forever. I also feel some resentment that my husband is going about his life as usual now, and probably won't change it much after the baby comes either. My husband and parents don't get it when I try to bring up my concerns. How should I work through my feelings so I'm more positive by the time the baby is born?