"top 20" style article about debating/discussing with men?

Post date: 2018-09-18 09:23:37

I'm looking for an article (Buzzfeed, maybe?) that contained a bulleted list of tactics (some) men (allegedly) use when debating with women. It included items like "shift the goalposts" but it was *not* a generic list of debate fallacies. It was, admittedly, a biased listicle, but boy did it describe a very specific situation I observed recently, and I'd like to reread it while cursing and shaking a tiny fist at the universe. Perhaps you can help me find it?

I really thought I'd seen this here, but maybe it just brushed across my Facebook feed, now lost for eternity. A search of AskMe didn't show the reference I thought I'd remembered.

It's not:
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/nyregion/men-women-candidates-debates.html
or https://thebestschools.org/magazine/15-logical-fallacies-know/
or https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/politics/a19480416/women-changing-mens-minds-feminism-steven-crowder/
It is very definitely not https://illimitablemen.com/2014/03/09/how-women-argue/
It almost could be this, except it's only one bullet point: https://medium.com/@jessicavalenti/yes-demanding-women-debate-you-is-like-catcalling-56d85b025500

Note that I am only looking for a link to the article, not trying to argue its accuracy, and I am definitely not accusing you (general or specific you) of applying any of the tactics.

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