Speaking sexy to thee
Post date: 2021-06-19 10:00:59
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Due to various kinds of repression, I'm not comfortable talking to casual sex partners about sex. I do fine with the abstract discussions and oblique flirting, but when it comes to being specific about what I want--especially in the moment--I get tongue tied and clam up.

Some of this is "what if you don't like my idea" and some is "my mouth doesn't like saying words for those body parts". Where can I observe examples of realistic communication during sexytimes, to have a sense of how to say these things?

Even if in the heat of the moment I know I want to say, "Please touch my X with your Y", I feel myself detaching, distancing, and putting up defenses before I can make the words come out of my mouth.

I know practice is the best thing, but I think watching/reading good examples will help me get comfortable faster, and feel less awkward/offputting.
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